Walewska: reflections from the perspective of Spiritism
One of the greatest Brazilian athletes, Walewska Oliveira (and not Valeska, Valesca, Walesca, Waleska, etc.) passed away on the night of 21/09/23, in São Paulo. The reason for her death was a fatal fall — likely suicide — from the 17th floor of the building where she lived with her husband, Ricardo Alexandre Mendes. The police report recorded the incident as a fall, and also recorded the existence of a piece of paper where, possibly, she had recorded a goodbye letter. The building's cameras recorded the moments in which the athlete went to this area, carrying a bottle of wine and a briefcase. The details of the case are not yet known, but the issue, precisely this month, marked by the campaign Yellow September, aimed at preventing suicide (we omitted the word to avoid problems with search engines) raises a reflection from the perspective of Spiritism, in what it actually says.
Antes de mais nada, devo dizer que acho lamentável qualquer opinião que busque julgar atitudes como essa (supondo que isso tenha acontecido) classificando-as como egoístas, “falta de Deus”, covardia, etc.
We wish Walewska's family, friends and husband a lot of strength to go through something so difficult and that, if they look for answers, they can find them in the right places. Furthermore, we hope that no supposed spiritist will inadvertently bring supposed communications, psychographed letters, exposing them to the public without reasoning about them. We feel that, if what we suppose was what happened, she did not have the opportunity to learn about a philosophy that gives certainty about the future and the ability to face life's pain from a different perspective.
Spiritist Doctrine and Spiritist Movement
It is worth remembering that the Spiritist Doctrine, as it really is, is a science, formed by methodological and serious studies, coordinated by Allan Kardec, analyzing communications, evocations and phenomena throughout the world. Its main characteristic, as a science, is that any doctrinal principle must be born from the scientific method, something that was abandoned at the end of the 19th century.
Contrary to spontaneous evocations and communications, at that time subjected to the double criteria of agreement and reason, today the Spiritist Movement in general believes blindly in practically what mediums and spirits say, forgetting or unaware that they are just opinions that should pass the aforementioned criteria. . Other times, they generalize individual situations, precisely because of a lack of knowledge. Thus, different narratives are created which, if not just absurd, sometimes offend reasoning and even disrespect individuals in their different conditions.
The Valley of Suicides
Podemos citar, dentre elas, e no aspecto aqui tratado, a ideia de que todo suicida irá para o “Vale dos Suicidas”, onde, segundo essa ideia, ficará sofrendo até que aceite o “resgate” de um Espírito que, muitos dizem, seria a própria Virgem Maria. Outros dizem que aquele que pratica esse ato renascerá em corpos mutilados pela culpa, onde deverão resgatar o crime realizado. Não passam, respectivamente, das falsas ideias oriundas de religiões que ensinam a queda pelo pecado.
I wonder: don't people who say such things put themselves in the shoes of those who hear them? Don't they reason? How would a mother, whose son was born with certain physical characteristics, feel when she heard the idea that the reason for that was due to the fact that he had committed crimes, if not against others, then against himself and against God? Wouldn't many be offended? Many others could come to see them with stigmas, perhaps? Worse: what would people who were born with such characteristics think? The fact is that many abandon Spiritism because of the Spiritist Movement which, in the information age, is reluctant to recognize the need to return to Kardec, not because of fundamentalism, but because of seeking scientific foundations.
We have already heard people say, within a Spiritist Center, from people involved in the institution's work, and even from speakers, that the reason the person was born blind was because they used their vision, in their past life, to bad. How many absurdities, how many nonsense, which only empty the banks of the Spiritist Movement, turned into religion.
Real Spiritism
But, thanks to Kardec's methodological studies, we can easily demonstrate the falsehood in the generalization of these ideas. It would be enough for every spiritist adept to read the first year of the Revista Espírita (1858), to verify that the situations of the Spirits of people who committed these acts are not unique, precisely because we cannot outline a “penal code of future life”, an idea introduced into adulteration of Heaven and Hell, in its fourth edition, released after Kardec's death, on which all known editions until recently were based (refer to edition of Editora FEAL to access the original and untouched content).
They would discover, with this study, that the future of the Spirit depends on its psychology, its knowledge, its ideas. That the extreme act is often taken in a state of madness, madness, thoughtlessness, inability to deal with unmonitored emotions. The article "Suicide for love“, de Revista de setembro de 1858, demonstra isso. Já o artigo “The Samaritan woman's suicide“, from June of the same year, demonstrates another case, where the Spirit, in a deep state of disturbance, believes, due to a state of moral suffering, that it is still linked to its body.
Facts
One fact is undeniable: remorse and repentance will be states that all Spirits will encounter, later, when they realize that they took such an attitude due to an inability to deal with pain, emotions (at that time known as passions), regrets, with dislikes, etc. Unfortunately, everything is generated by an inability to see life from another angle, a very broad, logical, and clear angle that Spiritism provides, in its originality. It does not try to impose the fear of punishment, but demonstrates the facts, the consequences and gives the individual a glimpse of the future, where attachments lead to evil and suffering, but the path to return to good will always be open, from the moment in which he understands the reasons for his suffering and, through his own will and efforts, decides to face the roots of his mistakes.
See: in the case presented in the Magazine of September 1858, the boy just carried out a thoughtless act. He states that he didn't even think about it, but that he was overcome by “vertigo”, that is, such a strong emotion that he didn't know how to deal with. In Spirit, he understood the foolishness (which is why everyone, without exception, will spend some time with the fateful scene repeating itself in their minds) and understood the need to correct himself in the future, so as not to commit this type of problem again. Who knows, according to your ability to understand, you will choose a life that will give you, from an early age, the fiber to deal with these emotions?
It remains to be said that the scenes that some suffering Spirits transmit in communications, such as dark valleys or even the idea of “threshold“, are born from their own minds. Perhaps they can materialize them on a scale, in a kind of tuned suffering, but they are no less temporary and definitely do not represent the generic condition of the suffering Spirit after death (read the Spiritist Magazine and you will see).
The obsession
We have one more aspect to address: the issue of obsession. The science of Spirits, treated seriously, was emphatic in demonstrating that individuals sometimes commit such acts in a state of madness, out of their mind. Often, but not always, this state has the determining influence of an obsessing Spirit.
Um artigo que demonstra isso é “The Spirit and the Juror“, de novembro de 1859. Nele, fica evidente que o papel de um Espírito obsessor, when it finds paths in the individual's own ideas, can influence you slowly. The latter, accepting this influence, which pleases him, even without knowing that he does so, slowly allows himself to be in tune with the obsessing Spirit, like a puppet whose strings are slowly being connected to the hands of its master. At a certain point, the individual starts to respond blindly, reaching a state of possession, as discussed by Kardec in A Gênesis (refer to the edition by FEAL).
Hence, a kind of shared guilt is born, of which each person will be their own judge. The one who allowed himself to be influenced, when he understands, will seek to create the strength to no longer allow himself to do so. The one who influenced, one day, will understand the harm he is doing to himself, deviating from the good, and will seek conditions to repair his deviation.
Final words
There is a lot to recover when it comes to the scientific principles of Spiritism. Its recovery, its restoration, free from dogmas and false ideas depends on this. daily disseminated and taught in spiritist centers, on tribunes and, now, on the Internet, where they find it regrettably easy to spread. We need to use this facility in favor of good and the restoration of true ideas, not attacking others, as many still waste their time doing, but recovering the truth and disseminating it, in true ant work, where each person needs to carry their grains . Take your initiative. Forget about romance for the moment. Study Spiritism where it really exists as a scientific doctrine.